A few scribbles

I was tempted to skip my usual eucharisteo post this week, then read this today: The Most Exquisite Pleasure I Have Ever Had

Giving thanks — as much and as often as we can for as many things as we can — is one of the most important spiritual habits we can cultivate.

This is more than just keeping a list of stuff I am happy about, in cultivating a habit of thanksgiving I am thanking a particular person (God) for what He has placed in my life.

While thinking about this during the day one of my children had a tantrum and disappeared into a bedroom. Later we discovered the damage — pencil scribbles all over the bedroom wall. Not exactly something we were thankful for!

Why would a child do this, knowing full well that it is naughty? We are not quite sure, there are a few issues with that child, this is likely to be partly related, and partly just plain naughtiness. A discipline challenge and maybe another small piece in a behavioural puzzle.

Gifts I have noticed today:

  1. Neither parent over-reacted or got angry

  2. The incident happened at a time we were able to cope — earlier in the day I was on a short fuse!

  3. The scribbles were in pencil, an eraser got it off

  4. Grandparents coming to visit

  5. Fresh apricots (the taste of sunshine as my wife says)

  6. Chocolate frogs (the cause of the tantrum)

  7. Better behaviour from naughty child this evening

  8. We are gradually figuring out how this child interacts with the world

  9. Still feeling love towards all my kids even when I simultaneously feel frustrated, angry, tired and fed up with them.

Up next An oddly vivid memory My late contribution to 5 minute Friday. The word this week is vivid. The task: Write for 5 minutes — no editing, no over Pray for your kids — compassion
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